Iziganeko ezenzekayo ebomini zinokumangalisa, kwaye eli bali ngumzekelo ocacileyo waloo nto. UJordani Trent, oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala ongumhlali waseGeorgetown, eTexas, waphulukana nombono kwiliso lasekhohlo emva kwengozi yasegadini xa wayeneminyaka eli-15 kuphela ubudala. Into awayengazange ayicinge yayikukuba kwiminyaka kamva wayeya kufumana iqabane lakhe elifezekileyo, injana eyayineliso elinye njengaye. Eli bali lothando novelwano liye lachukumisa amawakawaka abantu ehlabathini lonke.
Ikamva lidibanisa indoda kunye nenja eneliso elinye
Xa besiya evenkileni kunye nabantwana bakhe, uJordan wayengenazo izicwangciso zokwamkela injana. Noko ke, ubomi babuza kumothusa. Kwivenkile yasekuhlaleni, bafumana a Injanana enguMalusi wase-Australia elahlekileyo. Abantwana bakhe, bechulumancile zizinto ezizenzekelayo, bathi kuye: “Utata uyafana nawe, kufuneka simgoduse!”. Echukunyiswe yindlela abasabela ngayo abantwana bakhe abancinci, uJordan wayesazi ukuba le nja yayiza kuba yinxalenye yosapho lwakhe. Olu nxulumano phakathi kwendoda eyimfama eneliso elinye kunye nenjana eneliso elinye ngumzekelo omhle wendlela iiyantlukwano ezinokuzisa ngayo izidalwa ezikhethekileyo ngamaxesha angalindelekanga.
Injana eyaliweyo ifumana ikhaya layo elifanelekileyo
Kubantu abaninzi, inja ene- ukungaqhelekanga ngokwasemzimbeni njengoko oku kunokuthiwa "kungafezekanga". Ngelishwa, izinja ezikhubazekileyo zihlala zezokugqibela ukwamkelwa, njengoko uninzi lufuna ngokubonakalayo izilwanyana "ezifanelekileyo" ngaphandle kokuqwalasela. amandla othando kunye nokunyaniseka. Le njana, ekungekho mntu ibonakala ifuna, yafumana eJordani ithuba lokuba nekhaya elizele luthando nokuqonda, into enokubonwa ibonakala kumabali amaninzi. iingenelo ezinkulu zokwamkelwa.
Impembelelo kumajelo asekuhlaleni kunye ne-viralization yebali
Ibali likaJordan kunye nenjana yakhe entsha, abamthiya ngayo Shiner Solo, Yahamba ngenxa yentsholongwane kwisithuba sikadade waseJordan, uKendra Trent. Ngexesha elifutshane, ibali labelwana ngamawaka abasebenzisi, abalibona njengomzekelo isiphelo, uvelwano kunye nothando olungenammiselo. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwaba babini aluzange lubonakale, kwaye ngokukhawuleza bafumana imiyalezo yenkxaso kunye nokuncoma evela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi. Oku kubonisa indlela amabali okwamkela anokuthi achukumise ngayo iintliziyo zabaninzi kwaye agcwalise imidiya yoluntu ngemiyalezo eyakhayo.
Intsingiselo emva kwegama likaShiner Solo
UJordani wagqiba ekubeni abize iqabane lakhe elitsha Shiner Solo Trent, igama elinentsingiselo ekhethekileyo. "I-Shiner" ibhekisela kwi-brand yakhe yebhiya eyintandokazi, "i-Solo" ivela ekuthandeni kwabantwana bakhe kwi-Star Wars umlingisi u-Han Solo, kwaye "i-Trent" imele ukuhlanganiswa kwakhe kwintsapho. Ngaloo ndlela, igama le-pup liye laba yimbonakaliso yoqhagamshelwano phakathi kwakhe kunye nepakethi yakhe entsha. Ngeli gama, ibali liba nomtsalane ngakumbi kwaye libe nentsingiselo.
Ukuziqhelanisa nenjana kwikhaya layo elitsha
Ngaphandle kokungaqhelekanga kwakhe, uShiner Solo uye waqhelana ngokugqibeleleyo neyakhe ubomi obutsha. Izinja zinekhono elimangalisayo lokoyisa imiqobo, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi ezinye izivamvo zazo ziphuhliswa ngakumbi xa ziswele. UJordan kunye nosapho lwakhe bathathele kubo ukuba bamnike indawo ekhuselekileyo nenothando, eqinisekisa ukuba unokuphila ubomi obupheleleyo. Oku kunokunxulunyaniswa nokubaluleka kokubonelela ngononophelo olulodwa kwabo izinja eziye zaphila nzima.
UShiner Solo uyonwabela imidlalo, ukuhamba kunye nothando oluninzi. Ibali lakhe likwakhuthaze abantu abaninzi ukuba bacinge ngokuthatha izilwanyana ezikhubazekileyo, beqonda ukuba zingakhokela a ubomi obuqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo ngenkathalo efanelekileyo. Esi sisikhumbuzo sokuba, kungakhathaliseki ukungafani kwabo, zonke izinja zinokuba ngabahlobo abakhulu.
Ukubaluleka kokwamkelwa kwabantwana ngaphandle kokucalula
Ibali likaJordani kunye neShiner Solo lisikhumbuza oko Zonke izilwanyana zifanelwe ithuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bahluke njani ngokwasemzimbeni. Izinja ezikhubazekileyo zihlala zijongene nobunzima ekufumaneni usapho, kodwa ukukwazi kwabo ukunika uthando nokuba ngabahlobo abathembekileyo akunciphi nakancinci. Le nyaniso igxininisa imfuneko yokulwa ucalucalulo olunxulumene nokwamkelwa kwezinja ezixhatshaziweyo.
Ukwamkela ngaphandle komkhethe kubalulekile ukutshintsha ubunyani bezinja ezininzi ezilindele ikhaya. Amabali anje asibonisa ukuba into ebalulekileyo asiyonkangeleko, kodwa yimbonakalo uthando kunye nonxibelelwano eveliswa phakathi kwabantu kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ngale ndlela, i-Jordan kunye namava enjana yakhe isebenza njengesibane sethemba kunye nenkuthazo kwabanye abacinga ukukhuliswa.
Eli bali elichukumisayo laseJordani kunye neShiner Solo liye laba ngumqondiso wothando olungenammiselo kunye nesikhumbuzo sokubaluleka kokuthatha ngentliziyo yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, iziganeko zobomi zisikhokelela ekufumaneni eyona nto siyidinga ngokwenene: ubuqabane, uthando kunye noqhagamshelwano olulodwa.
